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So i was just wondering in general...Is it okay to go out with someone who isn't that great looking but is still attractive because of he's body etc. And also because he's personality is great?

I mean..well i'm just afraid if i might find the person un attractive due to he's looks while going out with him.. and that would not a be fun to deal with.
The thing is like he used to like me and i had NO IDEA~ i thought of him as a friend but now days i find him more and more attractive..grrr how can i tell if he STILL likes me..we got into this little argument(this was before i knew he liked me) and it was because i was going out with this other guy and i was being a bitch and ignoring him..sigh* But he's not as talkative to me On AIM but in real life he's still talkatvie..he asked for a high five just earlier and we kinda just held hands for a moment in the air like legit 5 secs and let go.I DON't kow how to tell if he still likes me :P

*SIGH*

questions:

1.Should i give him a chance?
2.He's from church..would that not be a good idea?
3.How do i know if he's still interested?

Thanks :D

-serenity

Beauty is not external, it's internal. So, looks should never be a factor in making a decision to be involved with someone or to like someone or not. Qualities in determing that you should consider someone as a boyfriend or not, are based on honesty, truthfulness (these aren't the same thing- most people say they are, but they aren't), respectfulness, goals in life, mental stability, gentlessness, personality, interests, hobbies, drug free, encouraging, supportive, beliefs, common bond based on having the same things in common, so that you don't lose who you are trying to become what he is, and how he treats his mom - there are other things too but these are basics, most importantly: that you are friends first so that you already know each other more than a complete stranger, not how they look. I am real and I can understand what it is to be attracted to someone, or having the desire but trust me, once you ignore outter and learn that person's inner, they become the most beautiful person in the world and the outter becomes no factor at all.

You already know if he still likes you or not, because we as women have this thing called intuition and it's real: trust it. If your soul tells you he still has interest in you, he does. Now, just follow up on it and see what's up with it. Tell him that you like him and that you would like to get to know him better. Tell him the things that you like about him and the things you want to know about him in order to like him more and then ask him his feelings about you and what you just told him. I am sure he smiles, winks, blushes, looks off, all boys are different which means that you can't base certain signs on if he likes you or not because all people are different some show it in different ways and some don't show it at all, which is why it is going to take some conversation to confirm your opinion on if he likes you or not. I am willing to bet that he does like you still!

The church thing is great - having the same beliefs are important and will take you a long way if this is your goal and his goal. I think it's a great idea that he is from church! that's actually a plus!!

If you like him and want to hook up with him step up to the plate, girl and let him know what's up with you and where you want to take this thing! Have fun, be cautious and mature, and enjoy your life! Good Luck

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(Rating: 5) thanks so much :D
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