I may be 15..but no one said that a 15 can't give wise ass advices :)
I believe that every person in this world..should be a leader of them self. They should not follow a path but make a new trail of their own to leave behind.
soooo..
the names serena i go by serenity. I guess i LOVE helping people out especially based on complications on love and friendships and family stuff...i can relate by far on those topics..as well as everyone else in this world can too i'm sure :D
I'm not your typical 15..year old.. i would probably be a freshman but i'm a junior right now :D and it's going to be helllllll
But excluding that fact..i'm not your typical girl because i think everything through a million times.. (it could be a bad thing who knows) I don't believe in the statement in which people try to act soo strong by saying oh you know people can lean on me and i can support them but no one can make me fall...well ahem* stupid person...if you can't fall then how the heck do you stand back up? in other words if you never fall then how do you become stronger??
People need to learn how to fix there own flaws before fixing everyone else's...
Mathew 7:1-5
read that bible verse. It's good.
i'm very social sadly i'm not afraid to speak my mind...sometimes not speaking your mind out causes half the drama in your life..and yet of course speaking too much of your mind...causes drama too.
ask me a question. i'll give you an advice thats probably not your normal advice..you'll see why if you just ask away ;)
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I really want a Boyfriend, but I have a problemo talkin to them! I like have no effin clue wat to talk about I just feel really awkward when talking to them! I can talk to them fine when i'm with like one other friend with me! i need to know how to talk to them beacuse I am really boy crazy! hahahaha HELP! (link)
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Uhm well if it helps for your friend to be there..Then just for a while have her by your side until you get into the comfortable mode..it may take a while..but i'm sure it'll happen..hopefully?
Well truthfully i saw you question and i was interested in answering because i thought OHH i'm good with talking to boys!
So let me tell you a little secret...I guess one big way of talking to a guy through flirting :P
No really~
Approach a guy or if he's near you is a lot better. But just say ohh did u see that celtcis game they won the championship or the red sox..etc what ever sport and just entwine your self into a deeper convo.
Don't plan your convo...Because 1. You get too excited and you think about how great this convo is going to be with this boy..then once you have the convo it might not have filled your expectations so you'll be upset.
2. it's sometimes easier when you just see something happen while your near a guy and go free style from there and just let the words come out from what ever your thinkin about in your noggin.
Like i know that usually when i'm with my guy friends something funny happens and i just say like..."...wow.." And they start a convo themself :P
Ask questions it HELPS!
Like. oh your hair it's shorter? and they would maybe say no i didn't get a hair cut..and just kinda like blush and say ohh sorry i thought you did..well hmm something does look different...about you. and maybe he'll say Well i did get a bit tan from vaca or maybe he'll say huh i don't why.. then u just improvise from there
LOOK CUTE/GOOD
it def helps!!
Put some curlers into your hair
put a little make up on
New clothes
Shows your body curves
ETC!
i Hope this helped :( i don't think it really did..
But i tried my best..( i'm a girl so it's a little harder for me to come from a boys perspective :)
-Serenity
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Thanks! That acctually helped a lot!
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