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What do I do???
A few years back I had the same situation happen with another one of my friends..See the thing is though I didn't like him more than a friend...Ever since he told me he loved me that friendship has never been the same...Well now its happening again...Another friend of mine just told me he liked me more than a friend...Thing is I don't like him more than a friend plus I have a boyfriend...I don't want to mess up the friendship but What can I do???
Please Help!

Yes, tell him that you don't see as anything more than a friend because you are involved in a relationship that he is aware of. Let him know that you appreciate his honesty, and his courage of being real with you. Now, let him know that you don't appreciate the fact of him approaching you when he knows you have someone that you are seeing now, and that you feel as if he has put you in an awkward situation, of worrying about the friendship you two have. Let him know that you still want to be friends with him but ask that he not approach you while you have a boyfriend.

just to make sure he doesn't do it again. It also lets him know that you are vibing the relationship that you are in and that you respect it and expect him to also respect it if he wishes to be friends with you. It also lets him know that you aren't mad at him and that he shouldn't be embarrassed for telling you or your response to it. most importantly it lets him know that you value your friendship with him, and maybe this won't mess your friendship up with him.

Good luck girl!

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