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What do I do???
A few years back I had the same situation happen with another one of my friends..See the thing is though I didn't like him more than a friend...Ever since he told me he loved me that friendship has never been the same...Well now its happening again...Another friend of mine just told me he liked me more than a friend...Thing is I don't like him more than a friend plus I have a boyfriend...I don't want to mess up the friendship but What can I do???
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I have the same thing. Understand that it probably will be awkward. Your friend decided to make it awkward when he admitted his feelings for you despite the fact that you already have a boyfriend. My best advice is to explain to him in the kindest way you're capable of that you already have a boyfriend and you aren't considering a new relationship. To lighten the rejection, you could toss in that you don't plan on a new relationship at least until your current one is over, this way he feels he has a glimmer of hope. As for how to act around him, try and act like things are mostly the same. Do NOT give him any sort of special treatment or puppy act just to make him feel better about you rejecting him. Act as if nothing happened in hopes that things with go back to how they used to be. Treating him differently will just bring light to how you see him differently now that he has told you how he feels. Best of luck.
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