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Ok So, I'm 15 and my friend is 14. There's this guy that is 22 and she realy likes him. We talked the other night and she told me a whole bunch of things that really concerns me. First, This 22 year old guy that she likes has a girlfriend, and she is also one of my friends. Second, everytime him and her hug, he grabs her boob. She told me that one time, when they were walking around they started making out and it turned into more than just a makeout. He actually pulled down her shorts and underwear and fingered her. I can't believe she let him. I just don't want his girlfriend to get hurt, and I dont know what to tell my friend. Ive tried to talk to her but maybe im not saying the right things. Thanks for your help

In ref to your question in the response to the rating - Sure, it is ok to go ahead and tell your sister. Tell someone, but make sure it is addressed because I don't want your friend who's 14 to get pregnant, burned, or hurt or abused anymore because he is abusing her and it's illegal. Also remember this: Those who stand for NOTHING, FALL for anything! MY email is sophia_pettus@yahoo.com. Good luck sweetie.




What an a hole to take advantage of a 14 year old! Talk to your friend again and tell her that if she really likes him, she will not do that mess again because he can take his sorry ass to jail and that he is only using her. He has no respect for her ,his girlfriend or himself to even do that. Also, let her know that you don't like it and don't want to be a part of that mess, which means that you don't want to be around it. If you are that strong about the difference in your friend,and yourself (morals and values), you may have to cut her off, for real.

Since you are friends with his girlfriend too, that means you most likely know him well enough to tell him that you know what he has been doing and that if he doesn't stop that you will tell her parents and his girlfriend! If you don't want to do that, you could also tell your parents and they could tell her parent's, if you just flat out want nothing to do with the BS, then after you tell your 14 year old friend everything you're feeling and she doesn't respect it, cut her off and let her do what she does to get caught, pregnant, aids, STD, CAUGHT! whatever is done in the dark always comes to light!

Good luck and I am sorry you are in this type of situation, which is why I always caution kids, teens, adults too, watch the company you keep or who you hang with!

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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much for your answer...its not rly like i hang out w his gf. we arent rly close..but the only ppl i rly feel comfortable is his grlfriend and my big sister who is in her late 20's do u think it wuld b ok if i told her and culd i just go ahead and tell his gf? i no i rly need to tell someone..
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