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my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost six months. and i still love him. but he never calls. he never texts. he never emails. and he never offers to hang out. its always me who calls first. and its hard for me. like the other day, i was talking to him, and he's like, "sorry i havent called you in a while, ive been really busy." and i was like, "oh ok, well what have you been up to?" and he goes, "oh nothing." so i was kind of upset that he didnt even come up with an excuse. he always says, "i really love you!" or, "i love you so much" but he doesnt PROVE it. i love him, but i cant keep doing this. i am his first girlfriend, and, even though i cant wait to get over him, i dont want to crush him. so how do i break up with him? i was thinking about doing it over the phone, but is that wrong? i dont think that would be a good way to do it. if i do it in person, what do i say? where should i go to break up with him? i really need help.PLEASE help me!!

Being that you are considering breaking up with him, I guess you don't feel the need to work it out or try communicating your needs and wants to him?

Breaking up with someone is hard because of their feelings. It's also hard not to break up with someone if you are ready to do that so you must focus on what you want and what you don't like.

Calling, texting or emailing someone to break up is petty and gets no respect in my opinion, but it's about what makes you comfortable. If you don't think that over the phone isn't a good way to break up, then follow your thought and ask him to meet you somewhere. Don't beat around the bush about it when the time comes, just stick to your points of how long you have felt ignored, avoided, or negleted. If you have talked to him about it before, mention that you tried to work this out with him, but for whatever his reasons were for not responding or acting like he loved you, has pushed you away and that you are breaking up with him immediately as a result of it. Let him know that there are no hard feelings and you wish him the best of luck in his future. Pause - to let him say whatever it is he is going to say: which is mostly likely going to be DUH.. UM... OK.. nah, but seriously, listen to what he has to say and then leave.

Good luck and always do what is best for you and what you want to deal with. If you don't want to deal with it, then don't. Also remember this, you can not change a person, they have to change themselves.

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