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Q: 14/f

my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost six months. and i still love him. but he never calls. he never texts. he never emails. and he never offers to hang out. its always me who calls first. and its hard for me. like the other day, i was talking to him, and he's like, "sorry i havent called you in a while, ive been really busy." and i was like, "oh ok, well what have you been up to?" and he goes, "oh nothing." so i was kind of upset that he didnt even come up with an excuse. he always says, "i really love you!" or, "i love you so much" but he doesnt PROVE it. i love him, but i cant keep doing this. i am his first girlfriend, and, even though i cant wait to get over him, i dont want to crush him. so how do i break up with him? i was thinking about doing it over the phone, but is that wrong? i dont think that would be a good way to do it. if i do it in person, what do i say? where should i go to break up with him? i really need help.PLEASE help me!!

you should do it in person, when its just you two and none of his friends and your friends are with you.
i went through the same thing with a guy last year. tell him the truth and how you feel. tell him that you feel like your the only one giving effort to be together and that actions speak louder then words, and he doesnt show that he loves you.
and then just say, i think its best for the both of us to break-up.
good luck.

Rating: 5

hah i had no idea what to say and this really helped!! thank you :)

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