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okay don't say anything like, your under age or anything, I KNOW!!!! so anyway, i was going out with this guy, Andy, i'm 15, then we had been going out for like 3 months, and i was staying at his house for a dance, we live on different islands, but there right next to each other.and we were talking then he told me he loved me, anyway, we ended up having sex... but then later, like a couple months later i found out he had cheated on me twice! then he asked this guy, iain, to start flirting with me and stuff so i would stop liking him and start liking iain. anyway i broke up with Andy, and started going out with iain, but two weeks after we started going out, i slept with him! it just sort of happened! so, i slept with him on the friday ans he didn't talk to me the whole weekend, then on monday, he asked if we could meet up, but he broke up with me! now i feel like everyones looking at me and thinking... slut, my friend says no one cares who i sleep with and that its just in my head but i cant stop thinking it! do you have any advice on what to do to make me feel better? i'm soooooo depressed! ='[

OK - here we go:

A slut is someone who sleeps with many people and has no standards or care about who it is. Boys, talk about different sexual experiences with girls, especially when young,hell some of them do it as adults too. They are just like that. They even pass females as it seems like your x did. Catch it, be aware now and stop falling for the game - play no games and be real to yourself. LOVE YOURSELF and DON'T LOOK FOR IT IN SEX because it DOES NOT exist there.

I would stop having sex right now because you already know why since you say it in your first sentence and because you said it, I won't say it since you asked me not to. You already know!

People do talk and judge women, girls, young ladies old women, I am saying this, DO NOT WORRY about what people say about you or think about you, worry about how you feel about yourself and what it is you do to give people thoughts of you. If you give no one nothing to talk about, they will still talk about you, now imagine what they will do once they actually have been given something to talk about. CHANGE your life, forget the past and focus on your future. NO one is perfect, we all make mistakes but it takes maturity to realize it, accept it and change it. It sounds like you have already started realizing it, now focus on changing it for the betterment and uplift of self.

Good Luck and if you need to talk email me.

sophia_pettus@yahoo.com

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