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im fourteen female, and soo many people in my family have lived through or died of cancer, nineteen died that i know about. my mom thinks i have cancer but shes not freakin out or anything, is she just tryin to keep me calm. im leaving on vacation in two days and i really dont wana get it checked out before i leave so i worry about it all vacation, im going through alot, and when i go im getting checked out for bipolar, depression, restless leg syndrom,stomach problems notjustlilproblems and i say adhd but my mom says i dont but every possible thing leads up to it. plus im trying to help two of my best friends out their both suicideal n iv been through it everyone else is makin it worse, and iv been getting heartbroken by the same jerk so many times, we were bffs, and everyone i love dies when i get close to them D:
i just dont wana ruin my vacation, im loosing it i dont feel good at all so many things are happening to me and i cant even cry, i might sound stupid but i just wana go somewhere with my family if its the last time. sooo should i get checked out about cancer, its a very big mole that was a speck when i was a baby but it has grown so fing big and it looks cancerous?
but what else could i do for the rest of the stuff typed up there too? please help me on any of it or all. i refuse a phsycologist or any of thoes people. iv had a very hard life mainly the mental side of it. but i just wana live happy and forget all this, im also leaving alll my friends for highschool next year, i can be the friendliest person ever if im ina good modd but im such a botch if im not. please help me, i need many opinions (link)
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ok, a mole that you have had since you were a baby is not cancer. ALL moles get bigger as we get bigger. thats weird your mom told you that. it sounds like you and she are worried about alot of things that you might or might not have. im not sayin that this is the situation but look up hypocondria. its a disorder that can cause all these feelings. maybe this is what your mom is experiencing. I let my mom read this post and she was like o wow, i cant believe her mom is telling her that. dont let this ruin your vacation. but remember, if your mom really believed in was cancer she would be takin you to a doc and not on vacation right?
hope i helped
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thank you soooo much. im just worried bc it looks just like a cancerous mole, so many relatives had it, my dad just got his skin cancer cut out and they said it was just in time a week later they woulda have done kemo and everything but he didnt have to, his was skin cancer, my mom just doesnt want to scare me, im having many hard times right now, like i have the past two years :(
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