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well i just recently got married to the most wonderful guy you would ever meet but i always seem nervous around his family and i don't seem to get any better around them and i always feel self consious around them.............could someone tell me whats wrong with me and give me some advice

I suspect you think they are judging you and you're afraid they won't like you or think you're good enough for him. My advice: be confident that he loves you and picked you. You aren't married to his family--you are married to him and it's his approval that matters and you obviously have that or he wouldn't have married you.

Have any of them done anything to make you uncomfortable or is it just new people nerves?

Do you have anything in common with any of his family members? That would be a way to converse and interact and allow you to be more comfortable.

My husband has family members that I can not tolerate. For the few minutes I have to endure their company I smile and act civil because I know that I don't have to love my husband's family to love him.

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(Rating: 5) i guess it is just new people nerves but i get along perfect with his mom i'm just not nervous around her idk why lol
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