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alright so far i've madeout and been felt up underneath the bra. i've been at this step for about a year and a couple monthes. i've been waiting to get fingered but im unsure because its really a big step to me. i'm dating this guy and we've dated before but then it didnt work out at the time.we've went out for about a month the first time and now this time its just about a month coming up. i was thinking about letting him finger me but i dont know. im just afraid of a few things. like what will people say? and what if hes bad at doing it because hes only did it with one other girl. im also afraid its gunna hurt. i dont know what to do while hes doing that to me lol. when you get fingered do they take off your pants or just go down them? please help me out with this. :]thankss (link)
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okay personally if your this worked up over it then chances are your not ready for it.. how long you've known him/been dating him, doesnt matter.. its when your comfortable and ready.. most people tend to think they are then they do it.. and later on feel weird about it that they wish they could take it back. if he cares enough about you hes not going to trip out about it, he'll be kind enough to wait, if not, hes not for you.
it truly shouldn't hurt that bad.. and in all honesty, hes your boyfriend, so if he doesnt it "bad" to you.. then tell him as hes doing what to fix.. like i said if your ready for it you'll be comfortable enough to tell him and he wont care. another thing, dont worry about other people.. they always talk but in reality it comes down to just you and your man.
alright hope i helped (:
good luck girl. (:
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