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HollisterHunk
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iv never had an actual "bf" but many very close guy friends. but recently my best friend, the guy who i trusted my life with made my life a living hell and screwed up every possible thing, bc we liked eachother. hes afraid of me cause i get"to close" to guys. i just hug everyone and i like it when guys hold me, i just feel that no guy loves me at all. he ruined me and i can not trust anyone even if its a girl, i had all my trust in him. we hate eachother and fight so much somedays but others we like eachother we just forgive eachother way to easy. i need to get over him and iv been tryin for the past year but i just cant, its hard to explain, weve been best friends then he has the most retarded reason and then ruins me over and over again. i know ud say just try and get over him but iv done every possible thing, i just cant. i dont know what to do?
im soo love sick. iv always been better friends with guys but recently iv been suck an ass to guys i only have two close guy friends left. i just think any guy friends will hurt me again, so im a jerk to them and they did nothing im the biggest bitch there is :c so iv been falling for any guy i meet and talk to alot. then i never see them again and i get heartbroken. i hug and cuddle with them, but some i just talk to for hours. example> last guy i met at cousins party, we flirted from the very beginning then on and off i would be a jerk to him and then he asked me to dance and i said no bc i was texting the guy who hurt me at the moment and then he was sad and left for a while then at the end insteada sayin bye i said jackass and left crying, ive never been like this but i was hurt so bad and i hate hurting other guys for no reason im such a drama and jerkkk to guys, he is three years older than me and he didnt care hes liked me before he even knew :(. i love a guy, flirt talk for hours and cuddle then end up bein an ass what can i doo, i just cant get over it? i dont even know what love is anymore, and the thing i hate the most is their so nice to me and ima bitch backkk Dx. what do i do for either or both paragraphs??? fourteen by the wayy (link)
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I think you should take a break from guys for a while. Then get back out and play the field once you get into High School or maybe just a little older.
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i tried that since end of school, it got worse. i fall in love wayyy to easy with guys il never see again and some even like me back but, when im havin so much fun with them i start thinking about the dude who ruined my life and end up bein a bitch to the dude i was with :(
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