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Basically, I was stabbed in the back by an ex-girlfriend long after we broke up and stayed friends. And I'm tired of being slanderized for no reason when I go out of my way to avoid her every day of my life.

So, how can I get back at her in a way that's legal, and not going to cause true harm (like pain or death)?

I know I want revenge, but I want it with honor.

The best revenge in living well. It's cliche but it's truth. My ex cheated on me with an internet chick. I left. I am now married to his bestfriend. We didn't get together until well after my ex and I separated and everyone knew it. My ex and his ex tried to say we had an affair before any of the separations which wasn't true. As hard as it was we were the bigger people and walked away.

4 years later we have 3 children, a home, good cars and a decent bank account that allows my husband to stay home and homeschool our children. His ex is living with her boyfriend who beats on her and is strung out on drugs. My ex married his internet girl who was 12 years younger than him, they live in a 2 bedroom low income apartment, drive a rattletrap and fight daily. She has gained 75 lbs since they got together. He is miserable.

Karma evens things out. Hold your head high and keep going.

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(Rating: 5) Thanks. I guess I'm just waiting on Karma now.
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