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Okay so I've been dating this guy for 9 months. Its been pretty bumpy && up && down. But, just last week we saw eachother everyday && it was great. Then I got supper busy recently so hes been hanging out with his friends alot, && thats all cool with me but that isnt my problem. He just started playing video games && I cant get him away from them. I've talked to him once in a week I call && text him but i only get short answers and conversations and we bicker alot. It frusrates me so I cant stand to stay on the phone && text(i dont like eithier in the first place) Last time we talked we got in a huge fight. He made me feel unimportant and said some things I think he should regret. But I cant help but think about it. What should i do?? He always goes through these stages until it comes down to breaking up then he changes for a week or two && goes straight back to it. I dont think I really deserve it. But Im lost && confused with what to do. Please help me (link)
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If he keeps acting like this regularly and he hasn't changed, he probably won't ever change no matter how many times you get to the breaking up stage. If its not working between you two you should have a break, just see how you go without each other for a few weeks or months. This will give you time to figure out if you still like him enough to continue the relationship. And it will also show him that you are beimg serious and won't put up with his on and off attitude anymore, and that he may lose you if he doesn't change.
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