I am one who is here
I live to help ppl
I judge not, so dont judge for the pride is hog posh
I belive that for someone to be happy
They must stop thinking one what they can get to become happy. And start thinking what they can do
For Thousands of years, Sage`s, shamens, preist and monks. Basicly anyone who knows a true thing or 2 will say. That those so called sins. Those so call bad karma habits. Are there to show you that a life free of those bad behavoirs is the one and only way to be happy
And im sure the white girls are like, pst, i can just blah blah blah and im happy. And the guys are like, Ha, thats a boring way to live(girls agree) But would you be here if you were free of sinful intentions? DIDNT THINK SO!
For all paths besides the path of saint hood are full of sorrow, pain, suffering, and insaneity.
And when you mix sins! Omg! Do the Math my friends
When does mixing sins ever work out besides the short comings of your life?
And if you do think aboot what i have said. You will so realise that you will never in your lifetime beable to prove me as a ignorance spreader. For it would take thousands of lifetimes
So Please! Study my words and wisdom. You will find if you are able to understand them. You will be blissed with untold amounts of joy the likes no closed minded person could ever have in there full lifetimes
If you are to learn anything from me. Let it be that the worst thing you can do to your fragle little mind. Is to be closed minded to any extent
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I'm an addict. No, I'm not a druggie, an alcoholic, none of that. I'm a computer addict.
I spend AT LEAST 5 hours daily on the computer on school days. On days that I'm free I will spend all of my waking hours on the computer (for example today, I was online nonstop from 8:30am to 11:30pm, right now).
This is getting out of control. My family is breaking apart because of it, my school work is suffering as well. I no longer have a social life, I stopped doing the sport that I used to love so passionately.
I think the reason I'm (psychologically) addicted is because its a way to escape for me. I'm pretty depressed and lonely, and the computer helps me cheer up and forget my problems.
I had suspected that I had a problem for a while now (two years). What finally triggered me to ask help is that my mom tearfully and angrily lectured me that I live in filth (which is true, my room is disgusting, but I don't clean it because I'm on the computer), that "when we're all together we're not a family anymore because of you, because of the way you treat your brother and father and even me, your mother." What hurt me the most was when she said that she has a stupid, lazy, selfish, 17-year old daughter who would rather be with a computer than with her family.
But it makes me upset and angry because they're really the reason for this, I'm never good enough, I'm lazy and stupid no matter what or how much I do. My brother is the perfect angel and can do no wrong. My dad has these horrible habits (thundering on the phone, stomping when he walks: the whole house literally shakes, chews extremely loudly) that really irritate me, and I've tried talking to him about it, but he practically says that I shut my mouth and suck it up, because he's not doing anything about it. I can't even eat with him because I'm in tears halfway through dinner because the noise of his chewing (and its only him) really extremely irritates me. I've been eating my meals alone for the past 2 years or so. My mom, dad and brother eat together. And when he is shouting at the top of his lungs on the phone when I'm trying to do homework... I just can't stand it and I think its extremely inconsiderate of him, and rude.
What do I do? Where do I start? How can I fix things up with my dad? I can't get any professional help because my parents believe that I am the only reason of the problems that I have. I don't really know who to believe anymore. All I know that I'm sad, depressed and unhappy, and I hate it. Please help.
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Well, I edited it a bit, But it makes perfect sense you just need to read.
Also! You said,"Food is also not the problem" You say nothing of your deit meaning you just dont know like a kid in a book store. Though its nothing to feel bad aboot.
And fyi, discipline as in discipline over the self
In Other Words, Being aware of what your doing when your doing it and making right choices in life from not eating the last chemical filled oreo
to getting off the computer and doing whats right instead of playing pretend that your powerless to yourself tho it is one hell of a hole to get out of. most dont make it.
And it seems you didnt spend much time reading what i wrote. Sometimes it takes some people to a few times reading it to grasp it. It takes a widly open mind to read what i wrote and get it fully like that(snaps) I say widly open even after that fact that i simplify All i write. I rewrote this 3 times!
But its your happieness. I only do this for I am wise enough to know dumbbut online and express myself for if i dont ill end up like (we will see if your desire to brain fart over comes your desire to find happieness =][this is why i love life btw])
Well, Most cases of depression in first world nations are because of the food the people eat.
And Yes, that means im saying if you eat the every day foods most ppl eat. You will always and forever be depressed.
It can also be your environment. As in...
You sit around in a box all day(a room)
You have negitive influences in your life, and you might not see it or them as bad so be carful.
You have little Discipline. And since the dawn of time little Discipline has caused sorrow. Its the way of our human world and is a part of our human life.
Your also at a time in your life where hormoans are raging. And if your a milk drinker who loves dr.pepper you must be very mellen collie always.
Not to mention the mental illness you will most likly get :] scaryness, i know alot aboot these kind of things and wouldnt say a peep if I wasnt sure.
And a very common depression people around your age have is to due with there place in life.
One with no direction is lost.
I can barely remember that feeling myself.
Filling that void with all sorts of things.
Friends, fad`s, hobbies, sin, chinese food and pepsi. A dark time indeed.
But i think ive said all i can say, hope it helps
From the heart -Buddhaman
-----------no need to read, just words of wisdom i wish i had when i felt like you =[------------
A very healthy thing to do to gain a direction in life is philosophy. Most ppl to me atleast head for religion, but i dont belive in that kind of thing to do while mentally stressed.
It is a science fact that meditation greatly reduces stress and promotes better mood and health
Buddha was very wise and spoke nothing but truth
Advoiding deadly sins is a great way to stay happy
The wheel of dharma is so simple is complex, but when understood fully, depression will be a thing of the past to the fullest your imagenation can fancy. Love thy everybody =D
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The only thing you got right is that I'm depressed. If you knew my parents you would know right away that lack of discipline is not the problem, I think part of the reason for my depression is the COMPLETE control my parents have over my life. Food is also not a problem, and I (used to) go to swim practice nine times a week, so I'm not in a box. Anyways your answer did not make sense and please learn to spell if you know a lot about these kinds of things because you're not very believable.
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