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I'm Brittany. I'm 17 and I'm a momma. I found about advicenators from a friend. She told me to join because all of my friends come to me for advice. I'm a good listener and if you need advice thats what I am here for!
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okay so im 15....



and



pregnant! i just found out...
yes i know i am very young to be pregnant.
i will be 16 in 2 months.
so please dont write about how im too young and blah blah blah...i already know....dont need to hear it more. thank you.


anyways....today i was on the laptop and my dad was next to me and i was looking at abortion pictures and saying how horrible it was. and my dad was like so if you got pregnant you would keep it? and i said YES I COULD NEVER KILL A BABY! and then we had this whole argument on how its not a baby at a certain amount of weeks and whatever...so i showed him an article on how they get nerves at 4 weeks so they do feel it and he was like I DONT CARE ID DRAG YOU DOWN TO THE CLINC AND MAKE YOU GET ONE! i just kept saying you cant make me..

REMEMBER....HE DOES NOT KNOW IM PREGNANT!

also when he found out my mom was pregnant with my little brother he yelled and screamed at her and dropped her off at the clinc..she sat there for HOURS crying...finally went in but they said she was too far along to get one...thank god.

so my dad is capable of having the heart to leave me at a clinc.

how do i tell him im pregnant without going through that? im keeping the baby, im still with the father and he is staying with me so i have help.

when i tell my dad should i immediately tell him abortion is out of the question?

can he really force me into an abortion? thats my right though isnt it? its not like since im under 18 he could make it get it by law right?

either way i need to tell him soon because i want this baby to be healthy so regular checkups to the OBGYN and getting put on healthy stuff is needed asap.


i live in florida if that helps?
thank you.

I was in your same shoes. I was fifteen when I got pregnant and my dad wanted me to get an abortion. I was so scared of him that I almost did. But when I saw my little girl on that ultrasound, I decided to stand up for myself. I told my dad I was keeping my baby. And you know what? He got pissed so bad, but now he loves her to death. If you want that baby, you keep that baby, its your right as a woman. And if someone tells you you arent gonna make it as a mom, you tell them that you are going to do everything in your will for your kid and that you will make it.
Don't let people bring you down.
They're just jealous that when your kid is 16 you'll only be 30.

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(Rating: 5) yeah he was VERY angry....but now he is accpeting it
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