Hey. my name is Tess.
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okay so im 15....
and
pregnant! i just found out...
yes i know i am very young to be pregnant.
i will be 16 in 2 months.
so please dont write about how im too young and blah blah blah...i already know....dont need to hear it more. thank you.
anyways....today i was on the laptop and my dad was next to me and i was looking at abortion pictures and saying how horrible it was. and my dad was like so if you got pregnant you would keep it? and i said YES I COULD NEVER KILL A BABY! and then we had this whole argument on how its not a baby at a certain amount of weeks and whatever...so i showed him an article on how they get nerves at 4 weeks so they do feel it and he was like I DONT CARE ID DRAG YOU DOWN TO THE CLINC AND MAKE YOU GET ONE! i just kept saying you cant make me..
REMEMBER....HE DOES NOT KNOW IM PREGNANT!
also when he found out my mom was pregnant with my little brother he yelled and screamed at her and dropped her off at the clinc..she sat there for HOURS crying...finally went in but they said she was too far along to get one...thank god.
so my dad is capable of having the heart to leave me at a clinc.
how do i tell him im pregnant without going through that? im keeping the baby, im still with the father and he is staying with me so i have help.
when i tell my dad should i immediately tell him abortion is out of the question?
can he really force me into an abortion? thats my right though isnt it? its not like since im under 18 he could make it get it by law right?
either way i need to tell him soon because i want this baby to be healthy so regular checkups to the OBGYN and getting put on healthy stuff is needed asap.
i live in florida if that helps?
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have you told your mother?
shed understand because shes been through it and knows the feeling of what its like to lose a baby, even though she didnt in the end.
im not sure if by law or anything, but i dont think he can make you. it is the mothers decision i think.
if you havent told your mom tell her first and talk to her baout how you'd tell your dad. if anything, she can help argue your point.
tell him its your decision and you think its wrong to kill a baby, and tell him you'd be depressed afterwards, which will happen, what father would want that for their daughter?!?
best of luck! write me if you need anything.
xxx
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thank you. my mom had in abortion when she was 16 so she knows how horrible it is. im going to tell her first. thank you!
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