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Age: 19
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I'm 15/Freshman/Female, my really good friend is 17, and he's a senior and is graduatiing in about a month. We both know there is sexual tension between us, but I think we are both trying to ignore it beacuse he has to go away in the fall for school. He's actually only about an hour away but still he'll be in college and I'll be a softmore..
Have any of you been in this situation?
Is it better to just ignore it , and stay friends?
Should I even bother?
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Do not let sexuality be your guide! The most important thing is making sure you have more than sexuality between you. I know that on TV they make it seem like sex is nothing, and things like ditance and age don't matter.
We live in the real world.
How are you going to feel if the two of you have one romantic night and he just up and leaves? Trust me it's not a good feeling, I've been there.
He didn't love me, and though he still talks to me every now in then the only thing on his mind is 'hooking up.'
If you really like this guy see how far the friendship takes you, but if he's in a rush to have sex, he's in it for the wrong reasons.
Take things slow if the connection is real, he'll be back.
Just know that having sex with a guy doesn't make him yours!
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Thanks, but I never said I was going to have sex with him.. that was never my plan.
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