I am one who is here
I live to help ppl
I judge not, so dont judge for the pride is hog posh
I belive that for someone to be happy
They must stop thinking one what they can get to become happy. And start thinking what they can do
For Thousands of years, Sage`s, shamens, preist and monks. Basicly anyone who knows a true thing or 2 will say. That those so called sins. Those so call bad karma habits. Are there to show you that a life free of those bad behavoirs is the one and only way to be happy
And im sure the white girls are like, pst, i can just blah blah blah and im happy. And the guys are like, Ha, thats a boring way to live(girls agree) But would you be here if you were free of sinful intentions? DIDNT THINK SO!
For all paths besides the path of saint hood are full of sorrow, pain, suffering, and insaneity.
And when you mix sins! Omg! Do the Math my friends
When does mixing sins ever work out besides the short comings of your life?
And if you do think aboot what i have said. You will so realise that you will never in your lifetime beable to prove me as a ignorance spreader. For it would take thousands of lifetimes
So Please! Study my words and wisdom. You will find if you are able to understand them. You will be blissed with untold amounts of joy the likes no closed minded person could ever have in there full lifetimes
If you are to learn anything from me. Let it be that the worst thing you can do to your fragle little mind. Is to be closed minded to any extent
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Briefly, the facts of my situation are as follows:
I had an emotional affair. It was a long-distance matter between me and a woman I used to know before I met my wife. When my wife began to realize what was going on (and it didn't take her long, because I'm lousy at keeping secrets and she's very perceptive) I ended it, and told my affair partner that I would not be contacting her again. I meant it, too.
That might have been the end of it, but a couple of days ago my wife looked into my e-mail account and discovered everything had been going on - things that she had not been aware of and which I had not intended to tell her. To make a long story short, the nature of the affair had turned sexual, and there were E-mails sent back and forth where we described that sort of thing in detail. There were confessions of love from both sides, and intimate revelations of other sorts. There were also plans for us to try to get together sometime soon (plans which I aborted before my wife even found out about anything, because I came to my senses about that much at least). I was lying to my wife about all of these things, and now those lies are fully exposed.
Of course, my wife is furious and terribly hurt, and she is considering ending our marriage.
I am deeply remorseful of what I've done. Right now I can barely look my wife in the eye, because I am so ashamed of myself. I think I might take my own life if I didn't know that it would only make things worse for my wife and child (for now, my child remains unaware of anything wrong, that goodness for that).
I know that I committed a terrible wrong, and I want to make amends and repair my marriage. I need advice on how to do that. I am willing to do literally whatever it takes to make things right again. I want to change myself so that I will be a better man, someone she deserves to have for a husband, instead of the lying cheater that I have proven to be.
Does anyone have any thoughts on what I can do or say to convince her that my intentions are sincere, that I truly am sorry, and that it absolutely will not happen again? Are there any of you out there who have gone through this on either end and might have some advice for what I can do now? And can anyone give me some idea on how I can work to improve myself and my own personal integrity so that this doesn't happen again?
I ask only that responders refrain from slamming me down regarding my wrongful actions - nothing that anyone can say will make me feel worse about it than I already do, so to harp on that will be pointless. Please, just tell me what I can do now. (link)
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hahaha, this is why i belive John Harvey Kellogg had it right.
But you have to see my friend. Were 2 different beings with little similarities. Realized this in its entirely.
For You to be 100% Your wife would have to change pretty much entirely for you to be like this. Same goes for her.
Now i belive the online thing is alright. But your case opened my mind. I dont think you should be doing that with people you could met up with or knew at one point in your life.
I say this because your setting yourself up for the worse my friend. Plus you seem slow(dont hate for i am as well) I think you should take a break from all "wrongness"
Now if you want your wife to be happy. Sell your soul. There is nothing that selling your soul cannot fix my friend. I sold mine to gain wisdom beyond my years to pay my debt to this world.
And selling soul means: Becoming aware, Do little things, big things, and dont think of`em as little or big cause they`ll sense that. Become overwelmed with joy around her in such a way you do those meaningful things.
Pretty much doing what you are told to do since you`ve turn 3.
Women own the world am i right? They are givin a acceptance in society to act the way they do and they milk that until they die. Its built into there very dna. And you Must see this.
Since they are tuned into this reality which was made by millionaire belive it or not the fact still remains that you now see this new world. Womens world. A sometimes very childish reality where there emotions are always right. So if they feel right after saying the first people to the moon where her uncle tom and bill clinton yet she feels right, shes right.
So to not go insane. Lose the ego. Lose the pride.
That is what women do. They take that from you because it is a ignorant thing to have if your a guy in your new world my friend.
That way you wont have emotions when it comes to things like making her dinner, getting her shoes. Or whatever.
And theres the pain factor. If you feel sore and sick. Keep going. Only feel sore when it hurts like a needle to the skin many times over. Only feel sick when your are horribly close to dying.
And last but not least. Get some of those clams thingys. Bumb that, there are a mess load of teas that do the same and more without the grossness.
How wouldnt that help? Putting back that spark?
Dont buy nike because they you slave labor. But just do it
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You need help more than I do. I implore you to see a competent psychologist as soon as possible.
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