Member Since: February 6, 2008
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16/m gay
basically, i have been crushin on this guy for a while, and i think he might like me back. he is always kinda flirting with me when we see each other, but i am not sure. last night, me and my friend both talked to him on the phone, and i asked my friend what he thought (he is bisexual), and he said that he really thinks he might be. he acts just like both of us did before we would even admit to ourselves that we liked guys. he acts super homophobic, if you ask him how he thinks another guy looks he will say "i dont know, im not gay". i mean, he just acts like he is in the closet. he is a christian, but i was too for a while. i am not sure, he is kind of hot, and i would like to go out with him, but i am not sure he likes me like that. is there i way i could be more sure if he does or not? and please dont say things like "you need to just let him know how you feel" or "you need to ask him if he does". thank you for your help (link)
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honey i know how you feel i was in the same situation with this girl. now just remember when you were in the closet and think about what actually made you come out.
ok? then just nudge him in the right direction without actually shoving him. if you just go out and tell him he will freak and just stop talking to you and then you will be known as the freaky gay guy who no one wants to have a locker next to in gym. if hes really not gay you'll still have his friendship and if he is you'll have a newly gay boyfriend who you can....."show the ropes to"
lol ; ]
i hope i helped
♥Zoey
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lol. i loved how you worded that. the thing that made me come out is kind of hard to recreate though, but it is awesome advice. thanks
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