Hello everyone. My name here on advicenators is Solcito. It's a nickname my ex-girlfriend gave me that basically means little sun. That's the only personal information I really want to give out. In the short time that I have inhabited this planet I feel that I have experienced enough to make good judgment in most situations. I've fallen in love, had my heart broken, been mugged, made and lost a ton of friends, lived in three continents and become fluent in two different languages. I just feel that it's important to let you know why I think I'm certified to answer your questions. I'm also a guy, so I know how men think. I'm not saying that there aren't a fair share of guys who have questions about girls. I just generally see more females asking about their love lives here than guys. Hope you like my advice, and good luck to everyone with their personal issues.
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what is the key to getting a boyfriend, and staying with him?
some might say confidence, others may say loyalty, and other important traits such as that, but im wondering, what worked for you in the past? was it just chance that brought you together or did you work on attracting a certain person by displaying confidence or whatever.
im wondering this because i havent gone out with anyone since 2 years ago, guys just dont seem interested.
thanks!
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I would say that the key to getting a boyfriend is confidence. Don't be cocky, but don't act like you're afraid to talk to him. I have seen really average looking girls draw a crowd of guys just because they seem to be the life of the party. Be social, flirt, and guys will notice you.
That being said, the only girls I have ever had long relationships with I met by coincidence, but I have met a lot of girls at parties and things. They just never worked out.
Keeping a relationship is a little more difficult. The key to any relationship is communication. People are different, often times so different that they really just don't have a chance at working out. Sometimes though, you meet a person and you learn to accept their differences and admire them as a person. In this situation you have to be open about you're feelings. Just based on human nature, you can assume people will have conflicts. Only through communication can you make sure feelings will not be hurt and eventually ruin a relationship.
Good luck with the guy hunting.
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