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I've been with me boyfriend for 2 years now and i love him a lot..He has such a hold on my heart and he just doesint know how bad i love him..instead of believing i love him he tells me i dont and gives me so many examples of why i dont..it just hurts when you know you love someone and they just deny your love...ANy way i wanted to know how i should i handle my boyfriends controliveness..he gets mad when i get dresses for school and say that i dont get dreesed for him the reason why i dont get dresses for him is beacuse when i do he says smart things like what! you wear them tight jeans to school or yea you like wearing that tight top to school huh? so i stopped getin dresses for him to prevent his comments..so now he gets mad when i dress for school...what do i do what should i say to him??? (link)
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I know you love him and this might be hard to hear, but he might have a problem that needs attention. My bestfriend is in this type of relationship and I don't see it getting better unless he gets help.
The problem is, is that it will be extremely hard for him to understand it. If this is a huge issue for you, you have to think very hard about what to do.
You could talk to him to try to convince him to seek help, you could have a deep conversation with him and hope it clicks for him, or you could dump him and see if that makes him change. Any way you look at it, it will be difficult.
I am sorry if I didn't help you but that is the way I see it and it is not a cut and dry solution.
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thank you... it is a very hard thing to go through im just very lost...but thanks for replying!!! much love
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