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Q: There's this guy at school I really like. He's a junior and I'm a sophomore. One problem... I'm a "good girl" and he's not a "bad boy" but he's pretty close. I'm a strong Christian and he won't even go to church. I know he has strong feelings for me too but he won't date me because he doesn't date "good girls". We're good friends and we talk a lot about getting together but he wants a lot more in the physical part than I'm willing to give. We talk about that a lot and he's always making jokes about wanting to do stuff with me that he knows I'd never do. He wants me to pretty much be a skank. :( I still really like him but I'm not really sure where to go with this... Any advice whatsoever would be helpful!! Should I pursue the relationship? Tell him how I feel? I'm so confused!!

If it were me I'd say nowhere unless you know you can keep yourself from being pushed into something you don't want to do. Once when I was a highschool fresheman a guy asked me out that I knew was trouble we didn't even have to talk for me to know he wanted sex. When he asked me out I said no and moved on. A week later he found a new girl and I was happy because I'd said no. Now I look back and don't regret my decision at all because I probably would have been pressured by something I didn't want to do. He Was really hot. :) but just no good.

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