Hello everyone. My name here on advicenators is Solcito. It's a nickname my ex-girlfriend gave me that basically means little sun. That's the only personal information I really want to give out. In the short time that I have inhabited this planet I feel that I have experienced enough to make good judgment in most situations. I've fallen in love, had my heart broken, been mugged, made and lost a ton of friends, lived in three continents and become fluent in two different languages. I just feel that it's important to let you know why I think I'm certified to answer your questions. I'm also a guy, so I know how men think. I'm not saying that there aren't a fair share of guys who have questions about girls. I just generally see more females asking about their love lives here than guys. Hope you like my advice, and good luck to everyone with their personal issues.
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Okay so me and my boyfriend broke up but we still see eachother because were friends with the same people but he makes it so awkward. like if im in a group of people he wont go up to that group because im there.or if i go up to that group and hes there he'll like walk away. Even though I'm not over him, I'm mature enough to be friends and i told him I didnt want there to be any tension or for it to be awkward and he said he didnt either but he still acts that way. What should i do? (link)
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If he's avoiding you there isn't a whole lot you can do. I think he doesn't feel comfortable being around you yet, so he avoids situations in which you two would be close. Give him some time. If he keeps this up for an unreasonable amount of time, confront him about it. Tell him to stop being immature. It's not fair to your friends that they can't hang out with both of you at the same time. More information about the breakup would help a lot, because I'm not really sure how sensitive the situation is.
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Well we've been on and off for about 10 monthes, we've had sex, and it was both are first time ( he now says he regrets it) and he broke up with me a week after we had sex.
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