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I have been married for 7 years, but about 7 months ago I met this younger guy at college. I am 31 and the other guy is 27. He kept pursuing me even though he knew I was married and I eventually gave in to him. At first we would just talk after class but then we started to have sex. My husband found out and I moved closer to where the other guy lived because he wanted me to. When I moved out the other guy knew I was pregnant by him. At first he was coming over all the time and wanted to move in with me but I did not want him to live with me. But, about a month ago he decided he just wante to be friends and now he is dating someone else. It really hurts my feelings when I think about it because I feel so betrayed and abandoned. He is really excited about the baby, but doesn't want anything to do with me not even talk to me like a friend. He acts like he is angry towards me and I don't know why he is the one that called it off. Why can't he even talk to me as a friend and why is he so angry towards me? Plus, I don't know why he ended the relationship in the first place, it was out of the blue, nothing happened between us. I can't ask him but he acts like he doesn't want to talk to me. Why is he acting this way towards me?
Aww how sad, YOU feel betrayed...karma IS a bitch after all. Anyway, he probably just snapped out of whatever trance he was in and realized that if you'd do that to a husband of 7 years, you'd do way worse to him. Either way you should forget about him. If he doesn't wanna see you just get over it, but be thankful that he's exited about his baby. It has no fault in any of this, so you should raise it with only love and devotion. Try and make peace with your husband. I'm not saying he'll take you back, but its not good to have enemies. Again, forget about the other guy. Its the best you can do, for your baby.
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This advice was so true and hard to swallow at the same time, but thanks for the advice! The karma part was funny because it is so true, but it made me laugh...
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