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Okay so I have 2 bffs, Kenzie and Bri. Bri and I have been friends since 4th grade, Im in 6th now. All of us are. Kenzie & I just met this year.. but anyway
well we all had this major fight for a really stupid reason and it really effected our relationship, even after words. Kenzie and Bri were never mad at eachother, so their relationship didnt suffer, just the one with me. They were all ganging up on me and stuff, and it was really annoying.
Well now they ALWAYS have plans together, and I feel left out.. It is really upsetting me and Ive tried telling them how I felt, but they just say "Well maybe you should make plans FIRST" But that is hard to do, considering they always have plans. And then on the bus they use MY phone to call and make plans for themselves, not even asking if I want to be part of it. It is really upsetting me. Ill ask "Hey can I spend the night tonight?" And shell say "No I want Bri to" and It just makes me want to cry. Today Im going to Alex's (youve heard about him, lol) birthday party with Kenzie. Its fine when kenzie and I are by ourselves, and its the same way with Bri and I. Bri always says we used to be like this *crosses her fingers* But now we are like this *sticks thumb and pinky finger out, all others down* and it makes me sad. They take it as a joke or get mad at me when I try to talk to them, and I dont want parents involved.
Thanx in Advance!
ALSO. Bri gets mad at me for stupid things like rolling my eyes. I dont know if that helps *laughs*, but w/e
P.s. I know this is off topic, but what should I give Alex for his birthday considering I have no money, at ALL.
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I think you should try to talk it out. Make them listen and tell them how you feel. Tell them it makes you feel left out and it really hurts your feelings. You should probably also try apologizing even though it may not be your fault. If that doesn't work you should probably not be friends anymore.I mean I think it's better not to have friend at all then have bad friend. They really don't deserve you.Plus I think it's very childish and just plain mean what their doin two you. Hope I helped. Let me know how it goes!!!!!!!
xoxoxoxo
princessita
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Its not that they are bad friends, but they have attitude issues a lot of the time. Thanx!
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