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well lately i feel...pathetic! there is this stupid guy (my ex) and he wont talk to me anymore. i dont even like him i just have never been rejected by a guy before and hes not talking to me. hes afraid that i might call him out (hes like that-he hates confrontation) im trying to move on and now that i realized why i kept bothering with him so much i dont think it will be that hard to leave him. but i am so mad at myself for wasting time on him and jor being treated badly. hes a JERK and i keep letting him treat me like shit!! i've started cutting again which i stopped because im so mad at myself and frusterated. what should i do?? i dont know what to do when i feel pathetic instead of cutting...
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You need to forget about this guy. He sounds like a jerk. I know its easier said than done. I think the best way to go about this is to confront him even though hes avoiding you and just tell him everything that you've been wanting to tell him for all this time, after you do that i think you you'll feel more free and you wont have to turn to harmful things like cutting yourself...and...even when you do feel miserable and pathetic cutting yourself is not the answer, when you cut yourself you're proving that this guy still has power over you, so I'd say that you're first step to forgetting about this jerk is to stop cutting.

I hope i helped.
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