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Q: alrighty so i'm 15/f and i'm still a virgin, never had a bf and never fooled around before. so basicly i'm totally unexperienced. but it's not cause i'm ugly or something, in fact a couple of guys liked me but i'm probably the shyest person ever: i cant even look boys i like in the eye :/. so yeah nothing ever happened.
so all my friends and classmates already did stuff like fingering, blowjobs handjobs sex etc.
theyre also around 15 years old. i'm like a total outsider and i cant even imagin a guy seeing me without a top or anything. i'm just extremely shy as i said before. and i'm NEVER gonna make a move. the only guys i can talk to are ugly guys cause around them i dont feel nervous obviously. (sorry if this is a bit offencinve)
and also, is it normal that everyone is already doing this stuff at this age??? i feel so weird. i mean yeah i like imagining me doing that stuff as well, but i CANT in person. and yeahyeah i know its not all about physical stuff but i cant even TALK to a hot guy or a guy i really like.
is the behaviour of my friends normal at this age?
and is there something wrong with me?
and as i said it'S NOT my looks because i've been told i'm one of the prettiest girls in school. and i SERIOUSLY dont wanna brag or anything, i just want to give you the facts so i can get good answers :P
well thanks for reading. :) xxx

I absolutely positively don't think there's anything wrong with you. If you look in my column( I think one below yours there's a question someone asked about why people don't stay with one person anymore. If you read my response I said there is way to much emphasis on sex. Honestly I think you're completely normal. I'm not exactly a crackpot with guys either. (most of us aren't we all end up flubbing anyways.) I think that if you relax a little and remember this you'll loosen up a bit and not be so worried about how the conversation will go. Seriously I think that you should stop worrying about having sex or other sexual activities. When you become ready to do that then you'll be more comfortable. I don't know if it's normal what they're doing. I mean was in hisgh school I was not doing anything of the sort and didn't think anything was odd. I don't think you should worry about it everyone matures at a different age. Consider yourself one of the lucky few that you still have your virginity. I think it's a precious. Don't give it way because of your friends. Just be comfortable with yourself and forget people who try to change you. I think once people get comfortable with they'll be more comfortable with other people

Rating: 5

thanks :)

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