I personally think people are like that due to the fact that our culture doesn't put an important emphasis to sticking with one person any more. Even from an early age people are taught "not to get too serious" you have your whole life ahead of you. So kids think. "Okay maybe they're right." So people think Let me sow my 'wild oats' and do whatever i want and then later I'll be in a relationship with one person. But by then it's too late. Kids have been so programmed that If you find someone new you can throw away the old person. And now that's just a common way of life. Not that I'm saying kids should begin to get serious at say twelve or thirteen. I just think that If our society were to teach younger kids that it's okay to wait until later in life (late teens) to start dating then maybe the value of relationships would grow. Also I think there is way to much attention put on sex. In everything you see people everywhere are thinking about sex. Kids catch on. They're not stupid. And i hate to be the one to blame the media but how many shows are there out there have sex somewhat involved? After a while it just starts to get ingrained into your life. If people stopped for a second and worried about other aspects of a relationship besides sex I think the rate people break up and move on to someone new would be dramatically decreased...

But then again that's just my point of view. I know it was long but I've been thinking that myself. And came to that conclusion a while ago.

wow i see exactly what you mean. im pretty serious with the boyfriend and we havnt had sex. and my brother said there is no point into a relationship if your not having sex and that im stupid for being serious and not cheating. this is coming from a 19 year old boy. and my parents say i shouldnt be serious either. so i see what you mean..thnx

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