My name is Samantha, im 13 years old and I know Im young but I give really good advice most of the time. Email me if you want my advice but dont want it public. I check my email periodically throughout the day, so it wont be long before I answer you. Im a lot better helping with relationships and animals and family problems. I have a huge family (10 people in my house) 2 cats, and I have only been (and still am) in one relationship, but ask anybody Ive given advice to--Im helpful. (yes I know, so modest) You can IM me too. I have school from 7:00-3:00 So I wont be around during those times, (those arent school hours but I wont be on during those times) but almost any other time Ill be able to help. REMEMBER! THE MORE INFORMATION THE BETTER ADVICE. You ask a stupid Question and you'll get a stupid answer.
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Samantha
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okay so i hate bringing my boyfriend over my house. my parents dont let us shut the door anymore because i guess they see we are getting more serious..they know he is in a gang so now they think he is a criminal...which he isnt. my dad thinks im going to become a chola (thats a girl gang member in my boyfriends gang) and all i hear is how they think hes a nice guy but hes a bad influence. they treat me like i have no brain and cant make mature decisions every since i got a tattoo. its like the tattoo labels me as "DANGER SHE IS GOING OVER THE HILL" kind of kid. AND IM NOT. i make smart decisions. they think im going to turn into my older brother and get myself locked up. what do i do? i dont want my boyfriend coming over anymore and when i go to my boyfriends house im not aloud over for longer then 4 hours. and yes we are sexually active and im planning on asking my mom for birth control...i want to prove to her im responsible and im looking out for myself. i dont exactly know what im asking...i just want to know peoples opinions on my situation.
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I think you need to sit down and have a discussion with your parents. Let them know that your BF is NOT that type of guy, and wouldnt do anything to hurt ANYBODY. Give them some examples of the mature things you have done. And no, You are not immature for being active at the age of 14-15. What's new? Most people are like that anyway. But I think you should (after your parents realize how mature you REALLY are) ask your mom privately for birth control. If i were you, My mom (If she agreed) would get it for me but not inform my dad till I was older.. That's how she rolls. Are your grades poor? If so, try your hardest to bring those up. Do little things around the house like taking care of dinner for mom, or cleaning the bathroom up. Little things like that can raise your maturity level in your parents eyes quite a bit. HOPE I HELPED! Email me if I did!
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-Samantha
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thanks. i asked my mom already and she said yes and thats exactly what she is going to do (not tell my dad) and yes i have great grades. A's and B's. i may live in the ghetto but i dont have to show it. my mom took me driving and had a talk about my boyfriend. and i explained to her hes a great guy but they just dont see it because they judged to quick. my mom said that both my parents like him alot ... they are just worried. but i see where they're coming from. thanks for the advice
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