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whoever out there..somebody: I need help! REcently I just started cutting again because I have done it a little bit in the past. I reall want to stop but I don't really know how. I just don't approve of myself and it feels as if my life is going downhill. I need some advice and if anyone out there has done this before and quit- please tell me how you did it.
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think deeply and ask yourself, why is your life is going downhill? what did you do tthat cause you to feel that way?
whatever it is, no matter how big or small, forgive yourself.
it's no use meddling yourself with the past or the present in any case and remember cutting just hurts your further, physically and mentally.
the more you cut, the more you get into the process and thus lead to damage.
i've cut before and i stopped because there's so much things in life that you can look forward to.
yes, there are obstacles in life and that's the joys in life. learning to overcome those and passing the next stage.
i remember still about all those obstacles i have to push through. i keep telling myself that if i cut, the pain would remind me of something surreal and maybe, i can cheat myself out of my situation. but that won't work.
you're a wonderful person, if you want to believe or not, and you could only be the person to save yourself. one obstacle will never kill you, it'll only build yourself up.
for those people that let themselves down, there are ALWAYS different paths, NOBODY how dark it is down the tunnel.
i've been there and i'll be there to watch you come back.
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Thank you soooooooooo much and I fell a little better. I told and my mom feels that i just need to get over it and she just doesn't want to deal with but it is okay. I am so happy that somebody cares and i am going to get better. I have to believe I will. Thank you!
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