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i had a gf that lasted over one year. she said she just didn't want a bf anymore so i was cool with it. i also asked her, if there was another guy. she swore there wasn't.
i kid you not, 2 weeks later,she kissed my best friend, and told another one of my friends she liked them. both like her back.
i have no idea what to do with myself. i want to stop talking to her, because i hate her SO MUCH.
yet, everynight i still call her out of habbit and we talk like nothings wrong, i mean, it's almost like we're going back out, kinda talk.
but then the next day always come and i find out she's hanging out with 1 of 2, or BOTH of my best friends and is cuddling with them, and carrying on. and she still has the nerve to tell me she loves me, and cares about me.
i'm so frustrated, so mentally drained, so stressed it's ridiculous.
i know things will get better in time, but right now, everything just sucks. (link)
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I know what you're talking about.. Don't kill me but I've been in her position before (I'm not like that anymore though!). I don't know this girl, but I can tell you a little bit from her perspective.
It seems like she can't commit and only cares about herself right now. She likes the attention and can't decide on just one person. She only tells you that she loves you and cares so she can keep you around. She's basically manipulating you.
What you need to do is tell her how she makes you feel, and never talk to her again. She'll only hurt you more if you keep talking to her. I know that calling her out of habit makes you feel better, but you need to think about this: If she truly cared about you, then she wouldn't be running around with your friends, would she? And it's not like she's dumb, she knows exactly what she's doing and how it makes you feel.
Anyways, things will only get better if you do something about it. Save yourself the stress and just let her go. If something causes that much negative impact on your life and even your health, it's not worth it.
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