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hiya I'm shelly, I'm 20 and from England. I have the best boyfriend in the world and he means so much to me. I love to help people and I've just started using Advicenators again. I hope i can help you all with your problems feel free to email me xadvice
im so confused as in who am i?
i can be really nice and listen to all my friends probem and never mention my own and then wouldnt give two shits about people! im stuck in between this good little girl to this horrible, lazy girl and i dont know how to balance the two! ive jus had enough of everything...im popluar at school..i sing and dance...but i just want to be in this dark mode were no one can talk to me! i sont just want to escape but i don know what im escaping..and when i have escaped i feel lonely and wan to come back! does anybody know whats happening to me? and does anybody feel the same way? thnks really need help!
I know how you feel, And Ive been through through it too.
I was like the perfect daughter and friend and I got fed up of it so i went into this little bad ass phase. I skipped school, got my lip pierced when my parents told me over and over that I couldnt, I started arguing with my parents and would spend all my time alone, I just didnt want to be with my friends at all.
I think alot of people go through a phase in their life where they just want to try and 'find themselves'
I think your probably sick of being this perfect girl, who everyone can come to for help. Just try and be yourself. Just do what makes you happy.
Be lazy when you feel lazy.
Spend some time on your own when you need to and when it gets on top of you all.
I finally found who I really am, and I know that my friends and family love me no matter what. Im lazy when I want to be, I see my friends when I feel like it and when I dont I just relax and chill out by myself.
I hope this helps, sorry if it doesnt
I hope your happier soon
x
(Rating: 5) No ofcourse you helped! thank you for taking the time out to do so! :D x