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im moving in 2 months and i keep trying to make time to see my bf because we go to different schools but hes always too busy. i dont know what to do because we havent hiung out just him and i in over a month!! we have seen each other at church/youth group and gone to service together and madeout in between services but thats all. im LEAVING and he doesnt have time!! it kills me but i cant just sit around waiting for him. but also it would literally break my heart everyday to not be with him and i dont know what to do. i love him more than i have ever loved anything (besides God and my family) and he is my best friend. we have been best friends for 2 years and started dating in december. please help me i know hes busy but i cant sit around waiting for when hes free. but also i coulndt bear to be without him!!! please help im so lost and heart broken. also he doesnt see the point in keeping our relationship if im moving in 2 months because we will just break up and he always thought we would date for years. and no long distance isnt an option. and some may say the best thing to do would be break up now but 1) i couldnt waste the last time i had with him not being with him (trust me i would die hes my best friend and i couldnt just be friends with him-i LOVE him) and 2) i want to spend as much time together with him as possible (hes just ALWAYS BUSY and he cant help it either) i have no idea what to do at all please help me
ps we are both in high school
why isnt long distance an option? i mean, if you barely see eachother already how different would that really be? idk i think if i really loved someone (like the way you say you do) i would totally do the long distance thing cuz whos to say you cant be together again physically?
but obviously he already doesnt see the point in dating you since youre moving which is probably why hes too "busy" to hang out with you...he just doesnt want to get more attached because it will make the break up harder for both of you...
i know its hard for you but this is something that is going to happen one way or another and so i guess youll just have to put up with him being busy for two more months because it doesnt sound like hes gonna make an effort to spend time with you if he already sees it as pointless...thats the only thing you really can do since youre not willing to break it off just yet
(Rating: 5) thank you very much