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Q: hi. i just read an answer of yours that guys have more erogenous zones than girls. well one thing i will do is when i sit next to him and cant do anything like kiss him or anything like touch his thighs all suggestively lol i will rub his arm and run my fingers up and down his arm like really soft because im trying to make it feel really good for him. and like sometimes i will do a little pattern like a circle or figure 8 over and over. so what im wondering is 1) are his arms a sensitive place? like when im running my finger tips up and down his arms does that feel really good to him? and 2) what are the other places because i want to know all of them!!

he loves when i rub his lower back or on his boxer line and have occasionally put my fingers right under his boxer line and it drives him crazy and also this one time i was rubbing his lower back and moved over to his side a little and he shivered and im very ticklish and sensitive on my sides so i understand why i do but hes not ticklish. was it because it was all soft and sexy and im guesing thats an erogenous zone, right? thanks so much! :)
Yep, guys love it when you rub their thighs, especially their inner thigh (just like you)..and the most sensitive place on their arms is below the elbow on the inside. Sounds like your very sensual, I bet your guy loves it!

Most women (and even men) assume that the genital area is the only erogenous zone that arouses a male...that is only because they haven't taken the time to slowly explore the guy into a fit of passion!

And yes, that is one of his erogenous zones.

Believe it or not..his nipples are very sensitive too, just as sensitive as yours are! Also, his belly button!

.. and below his belly button, along the tops of his jeans..rub your fingers (or uhum if you are at that part of the relationship, your tongue) lightly across and s.l.o.w.l.y.. from one side to the other, just outside, it will drive him crazy. *giggle*

I like to start kissing my guys mouth, with my hands running up and down lightly along his sides, his back and through his hair, and ALWAYS going slowly..I usually begin at his ear..then down and around his neck (where I sometimes enjoy marking him *wink*), down his chest, to his nipples, then trace the line down his stomach, until I reach the top of his jeans and go from one side to the other. *giggle*..he loves it. Of course, after that he can get extremely impatient about what he wants next..but, IMO, if your having intercourse- or even if your waiting, the exploring part leads up to much MUCH more passionate sex when that time comes along! *ahh passion my favorite!*

If you take your time, (and as a guy if you will just wait a darn minute and let your girl do this *lol*)..you can start with your hands from the less erogenous zones and work your way around to the most sensitive areas, all the while kissing him on the mouth and neck.. it will have his every nerve ending responding..and then no matter where you touch him, he won't hardly be able to breathe, you may even have him trembling before it's over with!

Have fun and remember stay safe! *wrap that rascal if you go all the way!*
Jasmine

OH, and if there is anyone that needs tips on "how to" correctly put on a condom just message me. It's better to be safe than sorry!!

thanks so, so, so much!! great advice! cant wait to try it hehe (ME sensual you must be kidding JKJK i am very sensual lol :] )

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Jasmine_Moon
I'm a 36 year old mom who has too much life experience. I realize that, no matter your age, life throws some crazy curve balls at you when you least expect it. I know in my heart that absolutely no one is perfect..and we all make wrong decisions at one time or another; and sometimes we just need someone to help us out without being judgmental! Furthermore, I think that the only stupid question is the one that you don't ask...knowledge is power.

One of my favorite sayings:
"If you live in a glass house, don't throw stones."

Well folks, we ALL live in glass houses at one time or another!

Never say never,
Jasmine

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