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I'm just your average 24 year old girl as far as looks can see. I know that I seem young, and let's be honest..I am. However, I've been through a lot of things in my life. Things at one point I thought would ruin my life...but guess what =) I'm still here. I've survived it all and now I want to help others do the same! And it wouldn't hurt for me to meet a few more people too!
If you are looking for someone to say everything that you want to hear, you are probably looking in the wrong direction. You come here to receive advice and I plan to do just that. I will be 100% straight up with you. If you aren't prepared to hear the answer, you might want to think twice about asking the question =)
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Location: Ohio
Age: 24
Member Since: April 8, 2008
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Last Update: October 7, 2008
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Hey. My friend, Hali, her sister died today. Car crash. I texted Hali and told her that I'm here for her. But I really don't know what to say. Hali and me were becoming REALLY close friends, and shes really shy. So I'm scared to talk to her, what to say, how to act. Hali lost her cousin over the summer last year, and her family took it hard, really hard. And now this. I'm scared that I'm going to lose my friend, that she'll push people away. I don;t know how it feels to lose a sister, I don;t. So I need help on what to do, what to say. I was thinking of staying with Hali all day at the funeral home whenever that would be. But I don't know. Hali doesn't have any close friends, I think I;m her closes. Please help me =[
I think being there for her at the funeral would be nice of you! It's hard to know how to react in such situations. I think the main thing is to ensure that she knows you are there for her (no matter what time of night). She may just need to be with family for a little while. If she pushes you away, just let her know that you love her and aren't giving up on her. Then give her the space she needs to mourn. Odds are she'll need you for comfort..even if she doesn't realize it at first.
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Thank you. I went to her house after track and just now got home. She seemed okay, but shes not one to cry in front of other people really. But she did cry, and when we werent talking she would cry and I just went over and hugged her. I think she knows I'm here for her.
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