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Location: Ohio
Age: 24
Member Since: April 8, 2008
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I wasn't exactly sure what category to put this under.
Well my mom has these strict rules about guys. If I have just a friend over thats a guy or my boyfriend, its always been the same. We can't lay on the couch to watch a movie. The couch.. in the living room. No guys allowed in my room even if the lights are on and the door is open. Not even if my little sister is there. We don't do anything like sexual. Oh big deal kissing and cuddling. What's wrong with that? She seems to be totally overreacting with her rules. They make no sense and she never ever gives me a good reason. Any advice about how to convince her to get rid of these rules? Or even advice why she says these stupid rules. We arent even allowed to sit in my lil brothers room. He's 16. My lil sister is 12. Its not like it will harm anything or anyone so whats the big deal?
I agree with all of the below posts. Your mother isn't going to change her rules. You say quote "Oh big deal kissing and cuddling", but your mom knows where and what this can lead to. I know the rules seem dumb now, but keep in mind that one day your daughter maybe writing this very same site and asking this very same question. Respect your mom and her rules. The more you respect her rules (without fight) the more lenient they will become. You need to teach her that she can trust you and eventually she will start to loosen that hold. Good luck babe!
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Shes been that way for years so trust isnt really an issue at all. As for just kissing and cuddling it really isnt a big deal because it wouldnt lead to anything else bc my little sister and bro would be there. we mostly just watch a movie or play a game or get on the comp. I understand that she wont change them but I dont get why she has crazy rules in the first place. Anyways thanks for the advice :) I appreciate it.
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