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I'm just your average 24 year old girl as far as looks can see. I know that I seem young, and let's be honest..I am. However, I've been through a lot of things in my life. Things at one point I thought would ruin my life...but guess what =) I'm still here. I've survived it all and now I want to help others do the same! And it wouldn't hurt for me to meet a few more people too!
If you are looking for someone to say everything that you want to hear, you are probably looking in the wrong direction. You come here to receive advice and I plan to do just that. I will be 100% straight up with you. If you aren't prepared to hear the answer, you might want to think twice about asking the question =)
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If I can make a difference in atleast one persons life..I feel my time here as been well spent!
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Gender: Female Location: Ohio Age: 24 Member Since: April 8, 2008 Answers: 116 Last Update: October 7, 2008 Visitors: 10257
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Alright this isnt exactly a question but whatever. Alot of times things finally start going right in my life and i'm happy...for a little while until something goes wrong or something and then i'm not happy i dont know it's jst not constant and it bugs me because i dont like going from everything being great to everything being bad from being happy to numb and all these things it's really confusing and of course you would probably say "your 14 your barely a teenager things are going to be confusing and inconsistant" but i like i said i dont like it cause anytime things go good i think to much about it and how great things are going and how happy i am then when things go bad i think way to much about how i just wish i was happy and things were good again and how i must be doing something wrong if things keep changing so quikly and what not anywho i guess what i need is some advice hence this website so i just want your thoughts on this please an thankyou in advance
Life is a pain, it's inconsistant, it's sometimes even unbearable, and sometimes it's absolutely amazing! Of all the adjetives..perfect is definitely not one of them and truly, who wants perfection?! Who wants a constant routine. What would life be without a few curves, a few tests? Don't put too much thought into it. Just live. If you never caught a curve ball, you'd never learn to grow. Have you ever tried writing in a journal? I know it sounds silly, but I still do on occasion. Sometimes I just write what happened that day, sometimes I even write letters to people (who will never receive them). It helps me to get everyday frustrations out. Lets say for instance a best friend makes you mad. Grab your journal..write them a note. (Don't hold back). Write everything that you want to say to them in this moment of frustration. Once done close the book and reflect. You've released your frustrations but nobody has been hurt because the letter will never be delivered. As said below..find something that makes YOU happy. Use that to bring you up when you are down.
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