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I'm just your average 24 year old girl as far as looks can see. I know that I seem young, and let's be honest..I am. However, I've been through a lot of things in my life. Things at one point I thought would ruin my life...but guess what =) I'm still here. I've survived it all and now I want to help others do the same! And it wouldn't hurt for me to meet a few more people too!
If you are looking for someone to say everything that you want to hear, you are probably looking in the wrong direction. You come here to receive advice and I plan to do just that. I will be 100% straight up with you. If you aren't prepared to hear the answer, you might want to think twice about asking the question =)
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If I can make a difference in atleast one persons life..I feel my time here as been well spent!
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Gender: Female
Location: Ohio
Age: 24
Member Since: April 8, 2008
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Last Update: October 7, 2008
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My husband and I have been together for 9 yrs. Like every relationship we've had our ups and downs mostly downs but I love him[I must love him if it hurts this much to be without him] you see he just asked me for a break I felt my world crashing down the day of our seperation I still feel horrible and don't know how to deal with it.
I'm a female and 24 my husband is 34
Oh dear...I feel for you honey! Not only have you been with this man for 9 years, but for the most important 9 years of your life. This would mean you were 14 or 15 when you got with him?
Give him the break he needs. Let him have his time and YOU take yours. Starting a long term relationship at so young makes it that much harder to move on, I know this. But you need to take time to learn who you are. Your 'significant other' shouldn't define your life, but only make it better.
Go out, meet new people, enjoy life. Baby girl I'm afraid there is sooo much out there that you have not gotten to enjoy.
Find the inner strength..I know it's there. I hope that things work out for you.
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Thank you so much 4 ur advice and yes I'm gonna begin to find myself
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