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ok well im 14/f and live in small town USA I have been SI'ing for like 4-5 years now and i really wanna stop i am really wating to get closer to God ad this is just holdig me back from living the life i want to. See i started becuse it felt good it feel something other than emotions? idk how to word it but my father was abusive i was never touched but i saw what he did to my sisters and my brother and well i dont know if that has anything to contribute to it. Now that Im away from him and have been for a while i relized i want to change. I dont know how so I guess thats what im asking. HOW CAN I CHANGE AND STOP SELF INJURING???? That includes cutting and stuff like that anything that causes me pain.


Before you ask I never wanted attention and well am asking on here so i dont get the wrong type.


Allie

instead of hurting yourself try keeping a little journal that you can write everything that you're feeling in. i used to cut and hurt myself and i still do but not as severe. i made a contract with my psychiatrist that i won't hurt myself. you could make one with yourself and sign it and put it somewhere where you would see it if you think about hurting yourself.

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(Rating: 5) ok well i can only try ive been clean for 2 weeks maybe 1 and a half but im getting there. i kinda made one in my mind anyway so idk but thanks
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