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I'm just your average 24 year old girl as far as looks can see. I know that I seem young, and let's be honest..I am. However, I've been through a lot of things in my life. Things at one point I thought would ruin my life...but guess what =) I'm still here. I've survived it all and now I want to help others do the same! And it wouldn't hurt for me to meet a few more people too!
If you are looking for someone to say everything that you want to hear, you are probably looking in the wrong direction. You come here to receive advice and I plan to do just that. I will be 100% straight up with you. If you aren't prepared to hear the answer, you might want to think twice about asking the question =)
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Location: Ohio
Age: 24
Member Since: April 8, 2008
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Last Update: October 7, 2008
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My parents are fighting. They are not considering a divorce but one in a while they just go at each other. It's really sad and since i am the oldest i want to do something about it. My little sisters get sad and cry when they fight and i want to help them. What can i do to make them realize what they are doing wrong? They both blame each other for things but truthfully it is always equally both their fault! I really need some good advice. Please don't give me the "talk to them" answer because right know i don't want to start anything else. Please help me. I really want to fix this becuase everytime they fight it bring up all these past things from like 15 years ago! Who cares about those things! Please help me. (sorry if this is long, i just feel very unstable and sad right now).
It's almost depressing when the 16 year old daughter becomes the adult..I know you don't want to "talk" to them, but as said below you can write them a letter. They can walk away when you are talking to them, but once it's in writing they HAVE to read it. Tell them that they are truly affecting you and your siblings. If you don't want to write to them, write a journal entry about it, leave the book open. Let them "accidently" read it. Do whatever it takes to get the point across. For your sake and for the sake of your siblings I hope that they straighten up their act. Your brothers and sisters are great to have such a wonderful big sister!
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thank you so much for your advice :) i appriciate it!
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