I have always seen myself as the mentor, the sage, the friend to run to at three in the morning and beg for help, and I have recently begun to openly embrace this role. You may say, "You don't know me! Why would you care about my problems?", and to that I say, "Because I would like to know you, and I want to help anyone and everyone feel better about themselves and their lives."
So send me your problems.
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Location: Marietta, Georgia
AIM: harlequininkd
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So me and this guy have been really good friends for two years now but I don't know whether he likes me or not. He talks to me constantly online and sometimes waits for me to go online all day too but whenever we plan to hang out he ends up canceling. He compliments me a lot like saying how any guy would be lucky to have me but then he doesn't answer my phone calls most of the time and avoids seeing me in person. He use to go to my school for a year and everyone thought we were dating. He also looks at me a lot when I'm not looking and we hug too. I told him I liked him once but he said he didn't want to ruin our friendship. I'm really confused! I don't know if he likes me just as a friend or if he likes me more. I know he doesn't like dating his friends because he tried it once and she ended up hating him after hey broke up. I just really need to know what you guys think. Girl are welcome to answer to if they've ever been in this situation. Thanks! (link)
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I hate to give advice that might hurt you, but either this guy does like you and is just confused, or by saying that he doesn't want to ruin your friendship, he doesn't like you enough for a relationship, or have enough faith in the two of you to think that a relationship would last. He is kind of expecting a relationship to fail, and therefore ruin your friendship. I am a girl, but I asked my boyfriend about this one, and he agrees that this boy is just either not into you enough for a relationship, or is just as confused as you are. He shouldn't base your possible relationship on his past relationships, because every relationship is different. You need to ask this boy straight up what the problem is, and either he'll realize that he has issues and want to work it out, or you should just move on and find someone who deserves to be in a relationship with you.
I hope that my advice helps.
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Thanks. I needed to hear it straight from someone!
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