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Ok so I am planning on having sex with my friend and I'm a virgin. I am not on birth control (and there is no way I can get it so don't tell me I should). I need some good tips on how to not get pregnant. We will be using a condom of course but is that enough? Should he where 2 in case one pops? Anthing is good. I can't wind up pregnant or my parents will kill me (don't tell me not to do it either because I already made up my mind). Also, if you still haven't figured it out yet, I am a complete virgin. He isn't and I want this to be great for him (don't tell me to get ourselves checked either). How do I make it last and feel good (and by that I mean both of us having an orgasm) because I have heard that the first time usually hurts.
THANKS SO MUCH TO EVERYONE THAT CAN HELP. AND PLEASE HURRY BECAUSE THIS COULD HAPPEN AT ANY TIME. (link)
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using two condoms is most definitely NOT a good idea because that can cause both of the condoms to break. so just use one. it's said that if a girl is on top she's more then likely not going to get pregnant. to be safe before he cums you could ask him to pull out, even if he has a condom on, just in case it does break or something like that.
also, i'm not sure if you have a regular period cycle but if you do, you should have sex either when you're on your period, or about ten days after that. i'm not sure if you know about this, but you're more likely to get pregnant 14 days after your first day of your period and 14 days before your next period. so just make sure you're not having sex on your more fertile days. if you get confused by this, just let me know and i'll fix my answer.
the first time can vary immensely it just depends on what girl you're asking. my first time i wasn't even worrying about it hurting, i was worrying about him and wondering if he felt okay and stuff. when you're actually there in the moment, you don't really worry about it hurting. and when he sticks it in, either you or him have to rub your clit so that you can orgasm. i'm not sure what you can change on his side, because i'm sure it'll feel good no matter what.
good luck!
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I love your advice! I never knew about the period thing. But I think I have irregular periods.
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