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Q: 13/F

ok.... so i yesterday i could see it in my friends eyes that she was keeping something from me. So I calmly talked to her about and she told me that her boyfriend (my x'friend) made fun of her two best friends. He said that I was fat and he said that Melonhead was a lesbian and had bad hair. He was already a jerk but I just couldn't take this anymore. I was going to talk to him about it but I cant because Katie promised him she wouldn't tell that he made fun of us. So now, pease dont judge me but i told her that she had to choose... would she rather have a friend or a boyfriend. That sounds rude but I am just offended that my best friend would go out with a creep that makes fun of me. I am sorry that this is so long but please help me.
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Well your not really being a friend because if you were, you wouldnt be making her choose. It has to be her decision not yours. Just stay away from the guy. You can be offended, but you cant be mad at her because she didnt say it, he did. But hell at least she told you and wasnt laughing at you.

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actually i do have a reason to make her choose because i found out that he threatened to kill me today at school

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