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Im a junior in high school and the friend ill be talking to you about is a freshman. I dont know why i should care about her but i really do because were friends. Were into the same stuff in school so i talk to her alot. Shes dating this one guy, and i know him, hes really a nice guy and they seem to really like eachother. But she tells me her parents dont let her see him. I have to admit that breaks my heart. Its innocent love and i think its sweet. I know i really cant do anything so please dont tell me that. Theyre always texting, video chatting, talking on the phone, and meeting up anywhere local they can, its quite sad actually. But they are just so happy together, and it really shows me what love is.I feel bad she cant see him though. Would you have any advice for her? Maybe i could talk to her about it (link)
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reminds me of myself when i was younger.. i started dating seriously very young. my parents always let me hang out with guys because they didnt realize how serious it was, they thought it was just puppy love. but when they found out what i had been doing, they became overprotective. so i stopped dating for a while and i learned my lesson. but when i found this one boy who i really loved my freshmen year, there was nothing i could do except for tell my mother how much i loved him, or i wouldnt be able to see him at all. so i sat her down and really had a deep talk with her about how i seriously learned my lesson from the last 2 guys, and i trust myself, and i respect myself, and she needs to give me a break and trust me. i told her to give it a chance, and to my surprise, she did! i think your friend may have to half a long talk with her parents and just use the right words and be completely honest. i know how it feels to be in her shoes and to have to feel like your hiding something. her parents would most likely be much happier if she was open with them, and they might realize that she is mature enough to date.
hope i helped (:
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