im a junior. i love movies. photography. scene plus american eagle. i love vintage and antiques. im my own person. i try not to judge and i have many different sides of me. im stubborn.insecure. lazy. cranky in the morning. but im also forgiving. protective. shy.
Gender: Female
Location: Ohio
Occupation: junior in high school
Age: 16
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im so depressed. and i want to cry but i hate people asking me whats wrong. i bottle it all up. and my brother is the reason. my brothers all reason for pretty much all my depression. its to the point to where it hurts everywhere. but i pretend to be happy and i just forget about it. and be happy. but it hurts. and my brother doesnt help at all. and i snap rubber bands on my wrist.
it hurts inside. but i cant tell anyone.
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obviously you want to talk about it becasue you told everyone on advicenators.com.
when people ask whats wrong that means that people care about you and they want to help you and understand your point of view.
It is not good keeping things bottled up. I am not saying that you have to tell people, but let out your depression/ frustration differently. How about writing songs, keeping a journal, have an online diary. All these things are healthy ways of controling your feelings.
If you want help then you are going to have to be flexible and tell people whats wrong. If you do not tell anyone then no one can fix the problem
just please dont do anything that you will regret later.
And please no more snapping rubberbands... that does not solve anything. That just puts yourself down.
I am sorry if this is so long but I care about you even though I do not know you. I have been in the same boat as you. And believe it or not I can understand you. So please tell people so they can help. But calmly talk about it. And its OK to cry. Dont think that theres anything wrong with it because there isnt.
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P.S. PEOPLE ON ADVICENATORS ARE HERE FOR YOU!!!
god bless you!!!
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i dont give 5s very offtin but this is the BEST advice iv gotten from here. Thank you SO much
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