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okay, i dont really know where to start.
way to much happend to really write it all down.
in summary- about two weeks ago my bestfriend really screwed me over, she treated me like shit for the whole week, i cryed and cryed- and i never really cry about anything, and all she could say was, "good let her cry." it was really hard for me, mostly because i kinda sensed something would eventually go wrong, and i should just for myself not be so connected with her, because when something bad does happen, ill be screwed. and i was, i never felt so hurt in my life. it was really bad. and no one had ANY good advice to give me, but to let go. i know thats what i should of done. but, i didnt. she NEVER apologized, she just one day at school acted like everything was okay, so i went along with it.
the only really bad part about her- is that she hates talking about our problems. she hates talking about negative things, unless its her personal problems. so whenever i have a problem with her, and i go to discuss it with her, she just gets mad. so i usually just ignore it, which isnt easy either.
I feel like im sacrificing to much for her, but i really cant let go, shes been my friend for so long now, and shes the only person who i feel i can be crazy and comfortable around.
I have alot of friends at school, the majority of everyone knows who me and my bestfriend are, and everyone knows were bestfriend. but for some reason, alot of people act like shes their bestfriend. i dont really mind, because every time that person isnt looking, she looks at me like she hates them. :)
but she really doesnt treat me well.
and i REALLY want to just drop her.
but for the sake of myself, theres only the rest of this year of school, then one more year of school for me. so im just gonna put up with it.
is that a stupid decision?
please give me ALOT of advice.
because i dont know what to do.
i mean i know what i should do, but i cant do that.
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Hi(:
She's your best friend and she's supposed to be able to confide in you about everything and vice versa. Whenever you have a problem with her she should bite her tongue and listen to what you have to say. Otherwise you two are in a one-sided relationship with your best friend and that's totally unfair on you.
I actually just lost my best friend about a month ago over my boyfriend and I miss her very much. But, she was always mean to me, and everytime I did something wrong it was a big fucking deal, and when she did something wrong I ignored it for the sake of our friendship to make HER feel better.
Sometimes you have to care more about yourself then others, because you'll just end up hurting yourself at the end of the day and that's the last thing you want to do.
Honestly, if I were in your position I would've handled things the same exact way. But, in the future things won't change and if they do that's great, but it probably won't. I think you need to sit her down and actually tell her how you feel and if she won't listen then write her a letter or like an e-mail then she'll be forced to listen without interrupting you. You're trying so hard to save yall's relationship and she is just making everything worse.
I hope things get better for you(:
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aw ahahaha that helped alot. i think what im going to do is just say straight up that if she cares at all about our friendship then she'll just listen to what i have to say. and if she doesnt, then her loss. but i know she'll listen. but again thank you
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