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My girlfriend and I have a long distance relationship. Our conversations are largely internet messaging and phone convos. However she seems to be very closed off. It's almost difficult for me to get a word about herself out and she hates answering questions. I try to strike up conversation, but she seems to shy away from anything related to her life. It takes a lot of manipulation just to learn her favorite food/color/tv show/etc.
I'm not sure what to do. I really love her, but it's like she's barely there. Any ideas guys? (breaking up is not an option I want to consider, thanks) (link)
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Well the best thing you could do is let her tell you when she is ready, but when she does tell you things, show that you are not being judgemental. Let her know that you really care for her and would it means a lot to you that you get to know her. Don't feel bad if she is not presently open with you. Some people take longer to open up. Tell her about yourself and make conversation; eventially she should open up.
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