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I like this guy who is shy when it comes to girls and weve been friends forever but hes like this all of a sudden. he thinks im scary but im just not your average girl i like the gothica lifestyle. He crushed me made me fall to a million pieces and didn’t realize a thing. He comes back from vacation the last week end of spring break what can I do. I need to do something we went so long with nothing. What can I do or say ? ANYTHING will help :( im 14 and his 14 bdays in a few days this is just ruining me i have to do ANYthing pweeeese

What did you change about yourself though? If he suddenly changed and thinks you are scary.. you probably did something very different or he was waiting to speak out. I like dark things too but if you're wearing extreme makeup and are covered in chains and black, it doesn't make you look friendly. If that's not it, and it's just your interest in it or your way of thinking.. maybe it does scare him. It probably just doesn't interest him at all or something.

You have to open up to him. Talk to him about how you feel and ask him why he views you as scary. It's best if you talk first before trying to make any plans with him. I really don't know your situation but buy him a present and see if he has any bday plans. If you got him something, then I'm sure he would want to see you. But whatever you did that made him think that way, tone it down possibly?

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(Rating: 5) i stayed at my friends for a week...so did he which i didnt no at the start. i came down stairs, wearing the so much "creepy" stuff. he freaked out but hes used to it now cuz now im totally myself around him and he likes that but i still scare him. which we were in a fight when that happened... i didnt even realize it could b that


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