Hi im Cherry Coke, I know that I am not perfect but I hope my advice will help!!
My favorite music is pretty much alternitive rock I love it. My favorite bands are Panic at the disco, Fall out boy, My Chemical Romance ,Paramore, Tokio hotel, 3 days grace, AFI and Papa roach etc
Im in Fastpitch Softball and am a Swimmer..
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Gender: Female
Member Since: March 14, 2008
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Last Update: June 5, 2008
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I met this guy two months ago and he's searious about me, but I'm not sure if us in a relationship would work. The first problem is that I could never get myself to commit to anyone. He could be the best person I have ever known. We have great conversations (mostly about sports), he respects me completely, we practically have the same mind in most cases, and I feel like he's the only one that I could talk to about things no one else seems to understand about me. He's always there when I need him. As you can tell, this guy is great. So what is wrong?
The second thing about us is the distance thing. Yes, he's there for me when I want to talk, but we're still in two different places. He lives in NY and I live in Boston. At first it didn't get to me much because that's what drew us closer in a way. Our first conversation lasted hours about new york and boston sports teams. We were both very competitive, but loved it. I never laughed so much. Maybe this distance thing isn't bad for most people, but I'm not one of them. Neither of us plan on leaving our hometowns. It's our homes. And this thing we have hasn't gone long enough to even think so far down the line, but it's starting to bug me because we never see each other. Am I just finding excuses or is "relationship" just not good? Of course we're young, but I am at a loss because I really want this to work.
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Theres 2 things you can do one you can be his friend and mabe in a couple years you can go out take it slow also then you will be able to see more of a future the only downfall is if someone else comes along..Or you could just go and vist him go on a couple of dates after a while of going out and you both think your ready both of you should make a compromise you should make a new home in a city that is between both of your hometowns make sure you dont push each other if you both love each other wait tell your ready to make this compromise.
I hope this advice can help your distance relationship...
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As hard as it is we have been trying to stick to being friends before we go any further. So you've pretty much touched up on our thoughts. Thanx for you advice.
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